What does one do when she is free?? Free from all the the expectations that were empty and fruitless. Free from all the hopes that had bound her to yesterday. What does one do when she is free... to love again to see again to be again No longer does she cling to that which… Continue reading Life Calls Her Forward
True love holds no expectations and awaits no change. It looks beyond all that appears so chaotic and disappointing, to find the underlying truth and beauty in all things, as they are. I've practiced this way of loving compassionately, without attachment, for many years. It is what lifted me out of a deep depression 16… Continue reading Loving Purely Isn’t Always Easy
I look into the eyes of each soul who approaches. "Are you my Beloved??", I ask silently, with hope in my heart. I am searching for that extra sparkle and shine, which will surely tell me that our souls have been dancing together throughout eternity. I've looked into a lot of eyes. I've found beauty… Continue reading Into the Eyes of My Beloved
We make an infinite number of choices each day without even recognizing it. We do this easily, because with these unconscious choices, we perceive to know what it is "right and wrong". We respond with every bit of logical programming we've ever known. We choose eggs or cereal for breakfast, because we believe that they… Continue reading Decision-Making Skills
When life takes a different turn than you had expected, are you able to still love yourSelf?? Are you able to still be at peace with all that is unexpected, and perhaps even unwanted?? For those of us who are fighters, by indoctrinated nature, it's a bit difficult to release control of a situation and… Continue reading Detachment as A Practice
I'm wise enough to know that abandonment is a perception. It is a subjective truth, that binds a precious soul to the perception of loss, lack, and injustice. Can you sense the tense energies when I say this?? I've grown enough to know that this whole viewpoint keeps me trapped in a perception of victimhood… Continue reading Healing “Abandonment”
The human psyche is such a marvelous creation. I can be so ecstatically focused upon all of my wondrous goals and endeavors, and then I can be so easily distracted by the tiniest of nonsensical disturbances. I hold a clear knowing that I am infinitely supported and loved, and then I find myself entertaining the… Continue reading Egoic Whispers
I so admire the beautiful souls who have bright memories of their Dad. It amazes me that a true father can be warm, understanding, and supportive. I don't have a single memory of my father "nurturing" me. Dad was a complicated man. There were moments and spaces where he was in his joy, and then… Continue reading Fatherly Figures and Expectations
Imagine yourSelf as a brilliant multi-faceted prism. Imagine that each unique point upon this prism, grants You a varying viewpoint of BEing and expressing yourSelf authentically. No single facet, within the whole, represents greater value, purpose, or truth. Each facet serves as a unique lens to honor particular points of your true essence. They all… Continue reading Multi-Faceted Selves
What a complicated emotion Anger is. It's at the core of every passive-aggressive communication, and so many limiting traits, patterns, and beliefs. If we don't find a way to give it voice and express itself in a healthy way, it will always find a way to control our thoughts and behaviors. Until we face it… Continue reading Giving Voice to Anger
